Ya know.........just call me Lo Lo...cause this will probably be the most ratchet post I write!
I am allllllll for girl empowerment and uplifting........but THAT AINT WHAT THIS IS ABOUT!
We've all asked ourselves at some point...several times over..What do I want from a man? What do I want out of life? And what can I do improve internally to ensure I feel equally yoked with ideal mate for a life of LOVE AND HAPPINESS? (DROP AL GREEN BEAT)
I HATE when hoes be like, I want a good man. Im over 30 and I've never been on a date. Im tired of being a booty call.....asking me if I know any good men....Then meet someone new and accepts WHATEVER they get.
Like literally met two guys the same night!
Im in the cut like oooooooohhh! We finna date friiiiiiieeeeeends!!
Hashtag: They Cute
Hashtag: We are too!
Hashtag: Southern Stuff I Like.
Hashtag: Educated
Hashtag: Gentlemen
Hashtag: DoubleDates
Hashtag: Gameday Cookouts
Hashtag: FINALLY!
Then you realize after a couple weeks or months of dating your guy...your friend aint done ANYTHING outside of the house with your guys friend. He don't call, only texts..most times days later. Only time dude is available is after 9 on Saturday nights every other weekend when he wants her to cook or bring him food. All homegirl is getting is an occasional WETT ASS!
Oh..Then Sunday comes....and boo wants to take you to brunch....Get there....and homegirls homeboy met us with another girl!!
WHAT AM I TO DO/SAY?.....
NOT A DAMMMMMMMMN THANG!!
Aint my place to have the "where is this going" convo with your dude....especially since Sunday night around 12 you getting up out the bed to go to his house.
What do yall do when you realize you have a DUMB friend?? Or when your friend says or does dumb shit?? Cause im biting SORES in my lips trying not to go off!
TELL ME SUMTHIN!!
~L
So Sorry Lois! Well there is no need for you to have that convo with his friend and here's WHY!
ReplyDeleteA. Your friend has made herself his booty call
B. She is clearly ok with being in the lane she is in...let her ride that lane until SHE sees fit to switch it up.
Which leads me to dumbshit she/we do... Not everyone has learned her worth! Takes time to figure out you deserve BETTER than what you are getting. Change your mindset change your life. So my wisdom to you is MIND YA BIDNESS and keep dating Mr.Brunch...
Im sipping my tea ...spill it about Mr. Brunch.