Hey LadyLuvs! It’s been a while since we've dished! So let’s have at it!? Shall we? =)
I was talking to Anny the other night and in the middle of the conversation she gets an email...."Do you mess with a guy name Tee?"
Idk about yall....but I've been on the receiving end of THAT type of convo MUCH more often than I like! In true Lois fashion...I wait to respond depending on how Anny is going to respond(while my crunk juice level is rising on the inside)
She decides to send the following...."Hi, I'm not sure of the nature behind your email, but at one time I did date Tee. Woman to Woman, you do not need to have any concerns as it relates to my past association with him. I do hope that he has found happiness with you and the family that the two of you created. If you have any questions , feel free to ask and I will address them accordingly. Best Regards."
Me: THAT WAS REAAAALLLLLLY NICE!!....I’m Proud.Hmph....and there really is no need for a response...classy Anny...Really classy!
So we continue conversations and.....you guessed it! A few seconds later.....
SHES GOT MAIL!!!!
"Well..When did u date him? we been together for almost 5 yrs living with each other for 3 yrs. I don't understand he said he don't even know you!"
Me(on my friends behalf): BITCH!......It’s not my job to educate or inform you. Why the *BLEEP* are you reaching out to me.....how the *BLEEP* did you get my email....you obviously found something you went looking for and got your *BLEEP* feeling hurt....where the *BLEEP* is his ole light skin *BLEEP*.......this is part of the *BLEEP* reason I’m *BLEEP* single now!Dealing with his *BLEEP*!!!! *BLEEP**BLEEP**BLEEP**BLEEP**BLEEP**BLEEP**BLEEP*
Anny decides to call Tee.....and informs him that shes only calling because his chick has been emailing her.....hes a bit shocked and ends up asking for the emails
I advised Anny to send a final email to this chick and be done with it. She sends: "Honestly I rather not continue this exchange between the two of us. However if there is anything that you do not understand, you should be hearing from your significant other very soon. Be Well."
NOW LADIES......
MY question to you is, AM I RATCHETT? OR WAS ANNY WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYY TOO FUGGIN NICE!!!?????? I mean....I get that you dont have to pop off with the other woman b/c the issue lies within the middle man...But after I've reassured you politely...IF YOU FIND YOUR WAY BACK TO MY INBOX....IMMA GIVE YOU WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR!!!!
HISTORY: Anny and Tee were together for a few years back in 2008...5YEARS AGO...during that time he even proposed....So not only have dealt with and dismissed this man within the 5years that yall were supposedly together....I've moved on. Reassured you that you have no reason to be concerned with our dealings. Wished you well on your future with him....I've also spared your feeling by not giving you the glory details on the last FEW times HE'S contacted and propositioned me WITHIN THE LAST YEAR.And I didnt respond hostile to a person whom I owe NO KIND of explanation....
I'll honestly admit that I would have responded MUCH differently......So woman to woman...How would you have replied!? And would you have sent him the emails???(b/c i wouldnt've...what he need them for?....)
-L
As one who has never been on the receiving end of one of those emails, I would have tried to be as classy as possible. Because, honestly the girl who sent that is #1 insecure and #2 ignorant in that it doesnt matter if we used to mess around or not, if your man wants to cheat he will find a way to do it. And I certainly wouldnt have called HIM to tell him that his girl is emailing me NOR would I have sent him the emails. That is only going to cause more strife in whatever "argument" they are already having. I thought Anny's response was perfect except for the " if you have any questions , feel free to ask and I will address them accordingly." I'm not answering shit else. You issue is with him, not me.
ReplyDeleteright!
DeleteI think Anny's response was quite classy as well. However I would have POPPED off like you Lois. Im classy but I aint that classy. If you come looking for IT... Imma give you it BUT not IT. Either IT/it I give you, you won't like it. Flat out!!
DeleteFrom Anna V!: I think Anny handled it very well. That chick doesn't deserve the honor of taking my emotions to a lower place. It sucks to be his woman...that's some bullshit that no one wants to deal with. And she silly ass hell for sending that follow up email. Boo Boo Gon get her feeling hurt if she keeps looking under those rocks. Hello!
ReplyDeleteSo.....to ensure that Lady Lois doesn't not FedEx me a butt kicking...here's my reply :
ReplyDeleteI am so thankful for the peace that keeps me from going off.
In this situation, everything in me wanted to have that phone conversation and ask how did you get me email ? And why the heck are you emailing me ? You're so haughty, and proud yet an insecure little girl. You don't really want to know the TRUTH.....BELIEVE ME !!
I know how this game works, I feel that I beat her at it, maybe (carefree shrug) .
In the future here's hoping that I do not receive any follow up correspondence.....but if I do......there will be a blog #2.
K.A.L