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Monday, May 27, 2013

WURR DA CAMERAS AT!!!??????

You know a story is good when it starts: So Dis Biiiitch....... LOL. But that's not how I'm gonna start this. I know you agree! LOL! So! Had a convo with my #1 lady last night.....and in that convo she TOLD me that she is moving in with me when I get my own place.... *CRICKETS*...... CLOSE YA MOUTH...... FIX YA FACE....... SHE WAS SERIOUS! AS THE HEART ATTACK she just had!!!! She's "working toward" shaking loose some of the baggage that's been weighing her down and the person she lives with informed her that they are moving south to be closer to her children.....(her words)"So the only option for me is to move in with my baby!"...... Needless to say I objected in a Major way.... "I am a SINGLE woman with NO kids...." "I didn't move HUNDREDS of miles away to set up shop to take care of YOU..." "You CANT be serious..." "In what WORLD does that make sense!!???...." "Didn't you say you wanted me to FINALLY move and LIVE MY OWN LIFE?....." "Yeah...I got my own place....but my momma lives with me...No its cool you can still come over!?........" GIRLS! CHECK ME IF I NEED CHECKIN!!!!! BUT IM NOT WITH THIS!!!!!!!!!! AT ALL!! NOT HAPPENING! RETURN TO SENDER! Convo got a bit heated...she was REALLY HURT by my responses....and suggested she work and contribute....said she could leave the house If I wanted to screw.....WHO DA HELL SCHEDULES SEX-CAPADES!???..(babe u leavin the club...and wanna sleep in it?...let me wake momma up and give her my keys)..Even went as far as to say that she let me live with her until I was ready to move out! Ummmmmm *hand in air* I WAS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY UNTIL ADULTHOOD!!!!...AND at that point I WAS OUT!!!! SEQUENCE OF EVENTS: High School(until 17), College(18-20), Left College to take care of HOME, Moved and STAYED OUT (20-Current) OF COURSE a part of growing up is building a life where you'll be able to support a family and eventually take care of your parents....but GIVE ME A FUCKKIN BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LET ME LIVE!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!! GAWD! I shed some tears over this struggle...I need some advice! I CANT........ #SickAndTiredOfBeingSickAndTired ~L
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  1. Emma LeeMay 28, 2013 at 4:48 PM

    unh un... momma stay put! Lois at this point its time for you to live your life to the fullest! minus any baggage that AINT yours... Yes it will be hard to say NO! but you need time to just do YOU! It will NOT be easy... your happiness depends on you not being a co-dependent. ( is that the correct term) ya know what I mean. Honey shed those tears and then sigh a sigh of relief and keep it pushing :) you deserve to do YOU to the most!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  2. KellyMay 31, 2013 at 1:45 PM

    Emma Lee dun said it all!!! Do YOU!!! If you allow mama to keep hindering you, you will forever be a position that will have you unhappy. I know your struggle. He'll I am living your struggle. Do what you have to do to take care of YOU. When mama gets old and crazy then you take her in but until then live YOUR life!

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