But the way his LIE was set up.........

The V is for VERIFY !

So I met this charming southern gentleman, and found myself almost smitten. Even with all of the cuteness and such of a new relationship, there was still something that did not seem to fit. So I turned into an investigator/profiler and just waited for that other shoe to drop.

One night I decided to Google my sweetie and see what I found.....not too much. FYI, that's never a good sign. So I went a little deeper and did a back ground check.

Turns out he had a WHOLE LOT of reading material for me......most of which I already knew. What I did not expect was to find out that he was lying about his age.

Yes,I tend to date more *clears throat* mature men, but this is a gap of certain un-comfortableness.

 So I made a decision, to end the relationship. Given the chance I could have considered the age difference, but it really , I mean really burns my butt when someone lies to me. (Deep Breath)

So, he does not know I did the background check, yet has assured me he's not the type of guy to just give up. He wants to prove that we can be together....you all should see my eyes rolling.

I am planning to cut all ties, after all there is no need for a friendship with a liar.

My Dear sweet and honest Sister Friends, should I tell him I know he's lying about his age ? And give him a piece of mind on how I really feel about liars ?

How would you all handle the situation ?

K.A.L

GUESS WHOS GOT A BOY FRIEND!!!!!!!

Shole Da Hell AINT ME!!! LOL But My flesh is getting WEAKKKKKKKK!!!!!! Its been so long..... And Its building up in me.... I Want it! and Want it! and Woooooooooooooooo! MIGHT MAKE MY HEAD POP OFF!!!! ^^^^^This is sounding reallly familiar.....Until i had that "DREAM" that I shared with my sista-friends. Smh! ANYWAY! Yall shoulda seen my big brutha "Cy" face yesterday when he thought I said I had a boyfriend! LOL. It was so cute! He lit up! Him was happy for me...said he noticed a change in me...! Am I "THAT" Friend???!!! The one that all my girls would be glad when I get man?! So we can double date...See how our men get along...and eventually make form a friendship so we can send them out on guy time so we can have more girl time?....the one you would invite out to see the movie we talked about but dont want her to feel awkward when you and boo show pda? Yall ever wonder what kind of guy I'd truly be into? I asked this question to my guy friends and they all had different opinions on the type I'd commit to..... Because I love yall.....I'll commit soon! Jut send some my way! I'll go speed-dating....blind dating....interracial dating....IM NOT PICKY.....OR AM I??? (sigh) ~L